Most of us have heard
the old adage ‘don’t judge a book by its cover’, but I would suggest there is a
new adage we have missed out on, and that is ‘don’t judge a movie by its
trailer.’ We have all read books or went to movies that looked better on the
outside, but the content was lacking in several areas. But I’ll be the first
one to confess that I only buy books or watch movies that look like they will
be interesting based upon the cover. The truth is, if I didn’t judge movies or
books by the trailer or cover artwork, I would be spending a lot of time and energy reading and watching
things that I don’t actually enjoy.
Judging is an action
that everyone performs on a daily basis. We make judgment calls about things or
people in order to save time and energy. We take note of what a
person is wearing, what they are saying, their piercings and tattoos, and the
way they smell. Through these exterior attributes we somehow come up with an
idea of that persons character, work ethic, family, financial situation and so
much more. Experts call this The
Ladder of Inference (see above diagram). “We adopt beliefs based on the conclusions we draw, which are
based on what we observe, which
are influenced by our
assumptions and experiences.” (GRILeadership, Adult Leaders Training) This is a very natural process for
most people. We see or experience something or someone, and through
our experiences and beliefs we try to put labels on situations and people
groups. Otherwise known as stereotyping.
Labels and
stereotypes lie. Physical appearances or previous mistakes don’t define people,
but the problem is humans don’t operate well when there are no definite
categories in which to make judgments on. Even if we were to successfully label
and define people groups, when we get to know individuals from different tribes
and nations we notice that they can’t be shoved into statistics and definitions
or analyzed based upon our own prejudices and experiences.
I would hope that
people wouldn’t label me, and I know I’m not the only one who struggles with
going up the ladder of inference and making judgments about people and labeling
them. So as a person reaching for maturity I must heed the Bible about
judgment.
Jesus Himself says, “Do
not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For
in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you
use, it will be measured to you. (Matthew 7:1-2 NIV)
Just imagine being
face to face with Jesus during our time of judgment. He lovingly reminds us of
Matthew 7:1-2 and then kindly starts judging us by our appearance and the
labels we used because that’s the way we judged others. How terrifying that
will be for a lot of people! Every one of us has judged people with labels that
are so disrespectful and demeaning that we would not be able to stand on
judgment day, all because we look at the appearance rather than the heart.
When a person judges
solely on looks he has turned his heart away from Gods heart, and accounted
Gods words as false. For when God tells Samuel to go anoint the King of Israel
He tells Samuel, ‘“Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have
rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People
look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”’
(1st Samuel 16:7 NIV)
If we judge based on appearance we disregard
the dignity of human beings. The very dignity we received when God deemed us
all worthy of His sacrifice on the Cross.
As we examine our
hearts let us also look deeper into the word of God about Judgment.
The Bible also states that we are to judge others as brothers and sisters in Christ. What is the correct way of "judging" someone when they are brothers and sisters in Christ compared to those who don't know Jesus or haven't come to follow Him?
ReplyDeleteThat is a great question, for those who are in Christ we have an obligation to judge our brothers and sisters because of their claims to also be in Christ. There are multiple scriptures that warn against people claiming Christ but not living what they claim because that makes them hypocrites. As Paul says in Romans 2, "For “the name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you,” just as it is written." Hypocrisy demands gentle and loving judgment from brothers and sisters in Christ because hypocrisy even from the beginning hurts the testimony of the Church. We don't have the right to judge non-christians because they don't claim to be born again believers, God will judge their heart, all we can do is practice what we preach and show them that Christ brings fullness of life.
DeleteI talk more about it in Part 2 of Judgement and Hypocrisy.
Okay so I read your other post, but I still don't see how we are to correctly judge someone… I know it's with love but I still don't understand what would be considered right verses what would be considered wrong.
DeleteAs I think about it more, the answer is very complicated. I don't think I would be able to answer it in a comment. So my next blog will attempt to answer your question. Look for Part 3 of Judgment and Hypocrisy in the next day or two. Thanks for asking questions and pushing me to think more about this topic. I really appreciate it.
DeleteI look forward to hearing from you in the next couple days.
-Peace